Here are three ways to search through the history of over 5,000 Loving Each Day quotes by John-Roger and John Morton.
The Soul is joyful. When you are joyful, it's a sure sign that the Spirit is present. The Soul stands as the positive polarity, balancing the negative elements of the lower levels. Joy is to be cultivated. It is to be embraced. It is to be celebrated.
So when you become tired of playing the games of negativity, the games of jealousy and anger and greed and desire, you'll turn to the greater reality of who you are and go on about the business of inner spiritual awareness. And Soul Transcendence is where the Traveler comes in and says, "Okay, let's go. Don't waste your time in the lower realms. Don't worry about the body; it's okay and takes care of itself. Don't worry about the emotions; you only need the essence of love. Don't worry about the mind; you only need the intellect to guide you through your experiences. Place your energy into the Soul, and we will travel into and beyond the Soul, into the 'high country.'"
Love yourself through everything, and your effort goes into loving. When things happen that may seem unfair or difficult at first glance, look for the loving lesson underneath. If you cannot see it there, put it there yourself so you can see everything that happens to you through the eyes of loving.
We certainly get to practice loving all the time, day in and day out, with all those petty tyrants who come at us with their criticalness. You don't have to love what they do, but you can love them. What they do can be ignored and forgotten like your last bowel movement or the air that leaves your lungs on an exhale. All you've got to do is keep loving and serving, because that becomes a spiritual exercise in itself that will transform you.
If you have a spiritual experience and you want to keep having spiritual experiences, you must turn from that which you just completed and go on to the next thing. To do less is to deny your growth and awareness.
So if you are not happy with what you are doing, that is a sign. It may be a sign that you have a bad attitude. Just correct your attitude. It may not be what you are doing that is causing the disturbance. It may be the way you are approaching what you are doing, and that is a simple fix.
When you seek love through sex or an emotional attachment or when you lust after a new car or new home, you are really -- deep inside yourself -- trying to locate your Soul. You just go "way out" instead of "way in" to find it. The loneliness that you feel is just loneliness for your true self, your Soul.
You may want to hang on to your anger and hurt feelings because you are afraid that the same thing will happen to you again. But what you are really saying is that you think your judgment, hurt, and anger towards the situation or person will keep it or the person from hurting you again. I have found that people are going to do what they do, and your anger or hurt is probably not going to make them behave any better towards you. The problem with judgment, anger, and hurt is that you are the one stuck with them. One of the greatest reasons for forgiveness is to clean up your own inner environment and make it nice inside where you live.
One great key to being aware of your Soul is loving the Spirit in your fellow human being.
The person who can understand you the most, who can care for you the most, who can do the most for you -- is you.