Here are three ways to search through the history of over 5,000 Loving Each Day quotes by John-Roger and John Morton.
Something powerful goes on whenever we direct ourselves towards accepting and cooperating with whatever is in our presence: we move closer to God's presence in all things.
As you go into the silence within, bypassing the body, emotions, mind, and unconscious, you connect with the energy that is your Soul, and start to contain it.
As you go through challenges in relationships (or any other challenges), it helps tremendously to continue doing the things that will support you spiritually. The "basics," of course, are doing spiritual exercises, reading Discourses, listening to MSIA seminars, going to MSIA home seminars and PTS events, and doing the things that help you remember your loving and your connection to Spirit.
The Mystical Traveler works with you only in a state of invitation and agreement. You must ask the Traveler to be with you and to work with you, and you must agree to its presence in your life. The invitation and agreement must be made every day, every moment. Each day, you must ask anew for the Traveler to be present with you, and doing spiritual exercises is one of the most effective ways of asking for the Traveler to be a part of your life.
Observe the situation, observe your feelings, observe your behavior. Observe whatever is happening neutrally, without internal comment, or judgment, or taking a position on it. You are observing only what is, not what you know or don't know about the situation. Look at the situation with fresh eyes. As you continue to observe, you will eventually reach a state of inner calm and contentment, and your impatience will disappear. Observing is not doing nothing. Neutral observation is active and dynamic. The internal power that comes from practicing it is tremendous.
So, lighten up. Get a sense of humor about life. Your destiny isn't some vague, romantic future; it is what is right in front of you right now. Use what you've got and what you know. You are divine. Learn to manifest joy under any conditions. There is much to celebrate.
There is no urgency. Our needs are met. The conditions in the world are inherently perfect the way they are and always potentially better through greater manifestation of what is to become. We can relax and participate in the blessings yet to become manifest, knowing that with God all the blessings are not just possible, they already are.
If you have a choice in your expression, choose the positive.
The physical body, the emotional body, and the mental body all grow by taking. The physical body takes in food, the emotional body takes in comfort, and the mental body takes in information. The spiritual body grows by giving -- giving of the physical energy to others, giving of the emotional caring to others, and giving of the mental energies to others in the form of guidance. Truly, as we sow, we reap. We need to maintain our balance physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually, and each person must determine for himself or herself where that balance is.
If a relationship is not happening now, then regardless of how special or wonderful it was, it is not happening now. Moving back into desires and memories is not a here-and-now process, so there is no fulfillment. There are ways to get into the now. One is to exercise because physical exercise is a here-and-now process. If you are chanting a tone, a sacred name of God, you will be involved in the lifting and flowing of that high energy, and you will not be focused on yesterday or tomorrow. And as many times as old memories, longings, desires, etc., come in, you can direct your mind away from those and back to now. It isn't necessarily easy, but it does work if you work it.