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As you give, you receive, and you may find weeks and weeks of loving coming from that one tender moment.

You may sometimes say, "I understand about being careful what I ask for, and I've really been tuning to the Light and positive energy. So why aren't things the way I want them? Why am I down here and not up there?" And I'll ask, "Did you hold to that Light action all the time?" You may say, "Well, no. A couple of times, I just gave up on everything and got depressed and down and called a few people names. When I went to the market, the woman in front of me stole my parking place, and I wanted to hit her with my car." And I'll answer, "You have to take care of those thoughts and feelings and actions when they come back to you. You've been busy creating that instead of joy and happiness and love and sharing." Those things that you create are returned to you. So if you're smart, you'll create balance and harmony and love. Then you can receive that.

There is nothing to control. There is only a state of being.

You ask: "What's going on with me? Is it that I don't know myself? Is it karma? Am I doing things right?" You are learning to trust yourself and trust God. Remember this translates to relax and be patient. There is also value in learning to wait on the Lord. Endure. Especially steer clear of judging your process. Trust your process is bringing you the experiences that are important for you.

There is nothing you have done that you cannot transcend because you are greater than any of your actions. So whatever has happened in the past, with whomever, over whatever, is past. It is as simple as that because it's past. And whether they were right or wrong, whether you did or you didn't do it, whether they did or they didn't -- all that is immaterial. Don't waste your time on it. And if you had a difficult childhood and your parents did some things that weren't the best, you can let that go, take responsibility for where you are right now in your life, and change anything that you are still holding on to from childhood.

Your children do have their own path in life, which may be entirely different from yours. You can let that be okay and can support your children in their learning. One of the ways you can do that is by setting and then sticking to consistent and loving guidelines.

Good relationships is called good communication, and the three C's of effective communication are that it is clear, clean, and concise.

Because it is your responsibility to handle this level, no one can really tell you what to do, and you really can't blame anyone else for what happens to you. As choices present themselves to you, you might feel confused, doubtful, or bewildered. The future can then become fraught with fear because you can't predict what's going to happen. That fear becomes a form of suffering. Again, the way to get out of that fear is to bring yourself present, in the now, and live in each moment. It's easier to be happy in the moment.

QUESTION: What can I do to make things better? How can I know that I deserve love, forgiveness, and all good things, and have it seem real? ANSWER: Each situation is a perfect teacher of loving your life. Your challenge is to let go of negative fantasies that just end up bothering you with what you are unable to change. Take charge of your choices so you do things that nurture and connect to your peace and happiness. Better to work this out in this lifetime as much as you can. Find your encouragement which has courage in the spelling of the word and in the manifestation.

If it's not possible to return a blessing to the one who gave it, give it to someone else.