Here are three ways to search through the history of over 5,000 Loving Each Day quotes by John-Roger and John Morton.
The ego and the personality are restricted consciousnesses, and they cannot go into God, although God can come into them. When we begin to give up those restricted consciousnesses and their demands and desires, we may feel pain and suffering on those levels, but it is only because we are still holding on to the restriction and not moving into the freedom of Spirit.
We do not have to suffer to get to God, yet our suffering can serve a purpose because it can make us so uncomfortable that we may say, "There must be something different," and we may turn to God.
There are very few things within our world that are inherently "good" or "bad" except as we label them. So if you are to stay free and clear, it is important to place out as few judgments as possible and to maintain as neutral an attitude as possible. To illustrate this idea, if you say you have had a lousy day, be aware that you are placing that attitude of "lousy" back on your consciousness, and you are going to harvest that. It would be more accurate if you said something like, "I felt pretty bad a number of times today." That is describing your state honestly without placing a judgment of "lousy" on the whole day.
If you do not do well in this job due to your own poor work-habits and resistance to supervision, you may find yourself in the same situation in another job. In personal and vocational relationships, it is you who has to do what it takes to discover, experience, and express your value.
The love of another person can support you in your search and discovery, but it is you who has to experience your own self-worth. If you expect that other person to give you your self-worth, the relationship may end in disharmony and divorce.
In awareness, figure out what is going on with you inside. As you start to go toward "your future" in the form of another person, another relationship, another financial venture, another job, or another physical location, are you going forward, as you are right now? Or are you going forward into fantasyville in order to escape from a feeling of loss, which may be based on past experiences? Before you get with that reactive elevator or yo-yo, it can help you to recognize that an external situation will not solve an internal conflict.
Recognize the divine Soul within every person you meet.
When you're dealing with spiritual things, you need a way to get to the Spirit. We teach you a scientific, repeatable approach -- called spiritual exercises -- of how to keep getting into the Spirit. -John-Roger
Your creative imagination has the ability to scan and respond to whatever you are associating with and to work with your intentions. Your imagination can start to assemble forms of awareness by mocking up what eventually comes forward as a conscious knowing and an ability to manifest a greater outcome.
As you allow yourself the freedom to be who you are (it's called accepting and loving yourself with no guilt or judgments), you can also increase your ability to have a fulfilling, intimate, real, and lasting relationship with another person.