Here are three ways to search through the history of over 5,000 Loving Each Day quotes by John-Roger and John Morton.
Only those who work within a spiritual discipline that works during the dream state go to school during that time. Those people learn what they are capable of receiving. Each person goes at their own rate of progress. Spirit will not inflict on you, so you are never given more than you can handle. In essence, you make your choice of the curriculum by your choice of how you express loving and how you avoid the loving expression, past and present.
For those working in Spirit, the loyalty is to the Soul -- the God aspect of your being.
Let each loving relationship you have with another human being live primarily inside you. If you place it in the world, you will experience difficulty. There's no relationship out there. There is only the reflection of what you are doing inside yourself and how you're dealing with relationships inside of you, not out there.
Sometimes we've desired something and didn't get it, and we've cussed God, our wives, our husbands, our lousy kids, and everybody else in the world -- and then weeks later the better thing comes forward. Then we don't know what to do because we've put God down, we've put our wife or husband down, we've put the kids down, we've put everybody down, but here comes this wonderful opportunity. It's because Spirit, the substance of life, had the better one coming for you and negated the one that was not going to give you the fullness that you had tuned in to. And so it looked like a curse, but the blessing was right behind it.
I have taught children what I call the "nine magic words" that are available to them -- and to everyone. The first three are "I love you;" the second three are "God bless you," and the third three are "Peace, be still." These words are powerful.
Question: Is there a perfect relationship available, or is that just a romantic fantasy? Answer: If you mean by "perfect" that another person will fulfill all your wishes, dreams, desires, and requirements, the answer is "No." In any relationship, you give away something and you get something. The thing for you to determine is whether what you get makes the giving worth it. For instance, you may give away your sense of privacy and your being able to do anything you wish without having to consider another person's response. What do you get in return? Perhaps companionship, sharing, a partner who is fun to be with -- any number of things. Then, of course, there is giving that which always makes it worth it, namely, loving. Relationships with other human beings are imperfect, and we come to each other to share and learn on the way to perfection. Where is perfection? It is not in relationship to each other, but in relationship to that which is perfect. That already exists, and your job is to find the way. How? Practice, and you'll find the perfection of Spirit within you.
What you think, in your heart you're going to become. Be careful what you think. But if you think you are God, and you keep thinking that positive focus, guess what. In your heart, you will become God. And guess what you can't do then? You can't do anything except what God does.
We are all, on this level, subject to being tested by negativity in our spiritual knowing. Our spiritual knowing is awakened by our experience of the good and the divine in all.
You are probably thinking that you'll have plenty of time to think all this over, and that you'll be a Spiritual Warrior another day. Welcome to the human race. Observe the slow evolution of human beings. Sure, we have advanced enormously technologically, but as a race we are still doing the same destructive things that were reported in the Bible thousands of years ago. Our thinking that we have all the time in the world prevents us from maturing. Procrastination is like pollution: It's wasteful and sloppy and depletes your energy.
Many times you will be placed in a "predicament" which must be solved. If you reach outside of yourself for an answer, you can sometimes get one that assists you temporarily, but in a while you find yourself right back in the same predicament because you did not go through it as a process of learning. You sought a way out of it through someone or something else. So many times the way out of something is to go through it and gain the greatest awareness available to you.