Here are three ways to search through the history of over 5,000 Loving Each Day quotes by John-Roger and John Morton.
Can you face an enemy and say, "I love you?" Especially a stubborn enemy inside you? Yes, you can, and I will tell you what happens when you do. Once you truly embrace the dark side, it turns to help you. Then you don't have stubbornness, you have determination. The darkness transformed the moment you accepted it, and all the power that was blocking you before now becomes the power of ascension, of upliftment.
Don't focus on what you haven't accomplished and don't berate yourself over what you think are your "failures." You cannot accurately know what's really going on from this level, or judge whether it's "good" or "bad." Real progression and change can be seen only from the level of Spirit. It doesn't work too well to try to "judge" or "label" your experiences from this physical level - just give yourself the love and support you need, without the judgments.
The value of each experience is in the understanding and growing.
When you are at your worst, the Lord is at his best and truly with you.
The Soul is life and gives health. Even though the mental, emotional, and physical bodies may suffer from negativity, hurt, and disease, the Soul can continually revive them and bring forth healing.
Right now is all that really exists for us in our lives. If you begin with what's true for you in this moment and work with that and don't focus on negative things in the past which have "gone wrong," you may find that things will begin clearing.
When old memories and pains come up, just place it all in the Light, send the Light to yourself and ask for balancing and healing. And then let it go. You will find that for a while it will keep coming up. Just keep repeating the process of letting go and placing it in the Light.
Have the compassion that sees past whatever behavior is present, whatever form is in your midst, and see the Beloved in that, and know that it is the sanctification that comes from the Spirit. Whenever you find yourself outside of that compassion, when you find yourself back in this land of reflection, in this struggle, in the war of the consciousness -- it is simply an opportunity to call upon God's presence to realize that the cathedral of the Soul is within you.
How do you become capable of bypassing the conditioning, the demands, and the expectations? Not by forcing yourself or pretending. It is a process of awareness, acceptance, and action.
Many people are becoming aware of a fervent yearning for peace. We have the ability to make it happen. We can put our focus, attention and loving into declaring peace instead of war with every choice we make. Do this one small step at a time, one moment at a time.