It can help a marriage if husbands and wives share their thinking with each other. If you think your spouse won't understand, give them a chance to misunderstand before you judge. You may find out that your spouse not only understands, but they can add ideas you never even thought of. Give credit where credit is due.

Families always seem to fight. But after you get through fighting, you're still family. In the world now, when we fight, there is hatred and enmity. And when we win, we try to destroy the loser and punish them severely. One of the first healings that will start to take place will be our reluctance to punish anyone for anything. Instead, it will be an action of moving forward in unity and in balance.

There is a great deal about love and the loving relationship between two people that can be demonstrated to a certain degree, but must be lived and experienced directly in order for it to be part of anyone's learning experience.

Place the Light between you and other people when you talk to them or are around them so that anything coming to you from them comes through the Light first. You can also send Light for the highest good ahead of you, to people in your life, situations happening in the world, and anything else that comes to mind. In other words, it is a good idea to work with the Light all the time.

It is only when both man and woman are spiritually whole that they are able to live in joy and genuinely sustain each other. Only when each member of the relationship takes responsibility for his or her own relationship with God can they find the true relationship that God intends men and women to have.

We human beings constantly try to substitute relationships with each other for the relationship we are really longing for -- a relationship with God.

If you want to change anything or anyone, change them inside yourself.

Pressure can cause you to cry out, "For God's sake, leave me alone!" Then when the other person backs off, you may say, "No, wait… I didn't mean that." You just want them to give you a little space. You're really saying, "Just be tender, love me, let me breathe, let me feel that wonderful, free flowing loving inside of me."

If you want to complete things with your mother, call her. If that can't be done, take some quiet moments, see her in front of you, and tell her whatever you need to, to bring something incomplete in you to completion. Trust me, she'll get the message. As you talk to her or to others outwardly or inwardly, in this world or in the world of Spirit, you will bring balance and completion to yourself.

There is a responsibility in marriage to stay healthy and do those things that will enhance your health.