If you focus first on your spiritual advancement, then all things "on earth as in heaven" can come to you. The Bible says, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, . . . and all these things shall be added unto you." [Matthew 6:33 (King James Version)] The priorities are clear, and the process of manifestation is built in.
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Every week we feature a challenge to encourage your spiritual practice & growth.Read about MSIA Founder, John-Roger View Past Challenges
Challenge time: when somebody tries to burden you down with something that's not yours, just go your own way.
If you do choose to do the thing, it is your choice how you do it.
If you don't want the burden that somebody is putting on you this week, see if you can very cleverly not do it, but, without inflicting upon them.
If it is your responsibility, do it so magnificently that it becomes a joy. And if it's not your responsibility, then don't let people place a burden on you.